Couples Therapy

A Relationship Derailed

Not feeling heard by your partner?

Having the same argument over and over again?

Communication with each other just isn’t working?

Infidelity, chronic fights, and breaks in attachment to your partner can all derail your relationship, sometimes for years.

Close relationships bring us the greatest joy and the worst suffering…

You Can Have More Joy and Less Suffering

At the end of the day, take an inventory…

What is most important to you?

Over and over again, people say it is those whom they love.

With help, you can have more joy and less suffering.

Close relationships are not only the spice of life, they are also the water of life…

What You’ll Get in Couples Therapy

Tending to your relationship is one of the most important things you can do.

In therapy, I teach a highly effective communication process to help you manage conflicts.

You’ll get concrete tools that you can use outside of the therapy session.

I make it safe for each person in the relationship to be heard and understood, while at the same time looking to see where the connection between you has gotten off the track.

Close relationships can get back to that place of love and flow…

The Skills to Make a Difference in Your Relationship

I’ve worked with couples for many years since developing a depth approach to couple’s counseling for my master’s thesis at the Pacifica Graduate Institute.

I have the chops and skills to handle any level of emotional distress and discord in a relationship—where each person is heard and conflict is handled in a way that is facilitated for its important value AND doesn’t end with lots of hurt feelings.

And last (but not least), I’ve had a 22-year marriage with two thriving adult children.

A Warm Connection That Can Once Again Be Felt

In Couples Therapy, I help each person to grow from the heat and pressure in the alchemical vessel of relationship.

I work with you to repair the hurts from the past so you can once again enjoy the love that you have for each other.

My success rate of helping couples shift from a place to distress to a place of positive connection is very high. I am particularly effective at helping men feel comfortable and heard.

I can help you get your relationship back on track. Contact me today (707) 768-7061.